Bystander intervention aims to prevent various types of violence including bullying, sexual harassment, sexual assault and intimate partner violence. When you see something that you think is not right, say something, do something and/or get others’ attention to help prevent violence.
Every person has the ability to be an active and responsible bystander. Bystander intervention is different from other prevention efforts because it discourages victim blaming, changes social norms, and shifts responsibility to both men and women.
- Believe someone who discloses a sexual assault, abusive relationship, or experience with stalking or cyber-stalking.
- Be respectful of yourself and others. Make sure any sexual act is OK with your partner if you initiate.
- Protect friends and fellow students. If you see someone who appears to be in trouble, ask if they are alright.
- Speak up. If someone, including a friend, says something offensive, derogatory or abusive, let them know their behavior is wrong and you don’t want to be around it. Don’t laugh at racist, sexist or homophobic jokes. Challenge your peers to be respectful.
- Get involved. Join a campus or community group working on these issues.